How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 04:12
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ask yourself:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
In bed, not in music, which is better, a drummer or a bass player?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why is every human messed up in some way?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Have you ever been forced to dress like a girl?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What is your juiciest sex story?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do you think cheating is that bad?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Do you enjoy cheating on your spouse? If so, why?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
What does it mean when someone says "I'm feeling frisky"?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why are white women not interested in dating Asian men? Are they not attractive to you at all?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: